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Are you male or female? Male
Age? 46
At what age did you start masturbating? 12
How many times a week do you masturbate? At least 7
How many times do you orgasm each time you play with yourself? mostly once or twice
Where do you masturbate: whereever
In bed? some
In the shower? occassionally
In the bath? alott
Outdoors? frequently
At work? Yes
Every room in the house? Yes
In a car while traveling along the interstate? Yes - often
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Yes
A friend? Yes
A friend's spouse? No
A stranger? yes
A co-worker? yes
A member of the same sex? Yes
A member of the opposite sex? Yes.
A past lover? yes.
What position do you play in:
On your back? yes
Standing? yes
Kneeling? yes
Sitting? yes
Lying on tummy? No
How do you play:
With left hand? sometimes
With right hand? mostly
With a toy? alott
With water from bath? no
Written erotica? yes :)
Pictures? yes
Movie clips online? yes
Videos? yes.
Something on TV? yes
What is your favorite porn: all
Straight sex between man and woman? Yep.
Gay or lesbian sex? lesbian yes
Group sex or orgies? Sometimes
Blow jobs/oral sex? yes
Cumshots? yes.
Age play? yes
S&M? yes
Role playing? yes
Kinky? yep
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? yes
A chat room dialogue? Yes
Exchanged stories or pictures? yes
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? Yes
Masturbated for a man/woman? Yes
Masturbated for the same sex? Yes
Masturbated in a group? yes
Masturbated for a photo? Yes
Masturbated for a webcam? yes
Masturbated for a video? yes
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? no
Insert something or play with your ass? sometimes
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? No.
Use pain as a method of playing? no
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? Yes
When was the last time you masturbated? Last night
Are you wet or hard now? Yes, hard
Are you going to masturbate now? very good chance
Are you a masturbation addict? i love it
What is the most you have played in one day? 8
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[29 Dec 2009|05:21pm] |
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I'm starting to get pretty wet, and all I'm wearing is a towel. I have lube and plenty of time. This should be good...
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| a question for mostly men |
[28 Dec 2009|02:42pm] |
in all serious guys, what is your opinion:
is it an emotional action to cum inside a woman with no protection? can you do it without feeling anything for a woman?
also: eating out, what makes you put in the effort of eating a woman out?
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[21 Dec 2009|11:16pm] |
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I was just wondering, if a woman goes from having sex with a guy who had an 8-inch penis for a few months, to, a month later, another guy who has a, for example, 4, 5 or 6-inch penis, would she be less sensitive to the newer experience, due to the older one that stretched the vagina's muscles more?
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[25 Dec 2009|05:48pm] |
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I've once read about a hormone of sorts that makes women more prone to become attatched to her partner after sex, for biological survival reasons. I can't seem to find the literature. What is the hormone?
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| Advice anyone?? |
[25 Dec 2009|05:12pm] |
ok you guys I have huge dilemma in my book.
My and boyfriend who is 27 and I am 21 has been together for 2yrs and I adore him. He gives me the world and the only things he wants in return is my love & loyalty which I am happy to give.
This where the brakes are beginning to pump Ive been with him for 2yrs and I have been sexually suppressing myself the whole time. When we have sex I do it his way I match his style to a tee and give him what he desires even if I dont feel like it all the while Im completely ignoring and shutting out my own sexual style. So now Im tired of suppressing my desires.
The only thing I truly need when It comes to sex is excitement, a thrill of some sort. Whether that be teasing me til I can no longer manage or playing some sort of game with me as foreplay. Sex to me is fun why not play? I also I LOVE PDA not only do I love but I need it, im a bit of a voyeur & exhibitionist. Kissing in public excites me, its passionate, it loving & its beautiful, who cares who is watching...its love its natural not something to hide.
Needless to say my boyfriend is not into PDA he would rather wait to passionately kiss me in the privacy of our home & to me thats so boring!!! I hate fucking and kissing in the same place...shit lets be adventurous, lets explore, lets feel the wind against our bodies as we kiss outside. He feels Im taking a petty matter and blowing it out of proportion. He feels we are both grown and should act it & come to a comprise. The comprise on his terms is he'll will give me pecks and hugs in public but nothing passionate until we are in the privacy of home. On my terms fuck a comprise...I need this. This is how I express myself sexually, he would hate if he couldnt fuck me his way, when Im not able to let loose like I would like I feel stifled and I feel like im loosing a piece of myself.- So anybody got any advice how I can make private person interested in pda?? Am I taking this out off proportion??
- Should I drop the matter and continue on how our relationship has been or should I drop him altogether?
- I dont want 2 cheat but damn....Im sitting here wondering can 2 ppl with 2 completely sexual appeties and desires really make it together? Everything is else is almost perfect just the sex...HELP ME PPL!!!
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[25 Dec 2009|02:49am] |
I walk into the room and find her sitting on the bed, wearing jeans and a green tank top. Her eyes focus on mine as she stands up. I walk over to her and without saying a word she firmly sits me down, her hands pushing against my chest. I'm nervous and excited and really turned on right now.
Her fingers lightly brush against my hip as she pulls my shirt over my head and she wraps her arms around my neck and straddles me. I smell her smooth skin and I start to imagine having sex with her in this position. I can feel her breasts against my chest and I wrap my arms around her. One of her hands runs though my hair as she starts kissing me. Her warm lips pressed against mine and then her tongue gently traces my lips. And then a small bite on my lower lip. She starts grinding onto my lap and pulls one of my hands onto her ass. I remember the last time we had sex when I spanked her when my cock was inside her.
Rising up off my lap onto her knees she pushes me onto my back and as I watch pulls off her tank top. My cock presses harder against my pants. I just want to take it out, but I know she's in charge this time; she's calling the shots and I like that. She was not wearing a bra and her nipples get harder with the cooler air; she cups one breast in her left hand and her right strays towards her jeans and she slips her fingers into the waist. I love her breasts and how well they would fit in my hands. I think about how I would love to suck on her nipples and nibble on them because I know that turns her on. She glances down at the bulge in my pants, up at my eyes, then back down to my cock again. She brings her left hand down and presses her hand against my penis and gives it a little squeeze, feeling its hardness. Then she unbuttons my pants, unzips them and then does the same to her own. Her lacy purple panties peek out from the v of her undone pants. I love how she looks in those panties how they caress her ass and wrap around her hips. How they're almost sheer.
She then lays down next me and I watch as she slides her right hand into her panties. She knows how much it turns me on when she touches herself and I love it every time she does. I just get really hot seeing her rub her clit and moan and come. It really is a beautiful sight. Her legs jump a little, she takes a little quick breath and she gently bites the corner of her bottom lip as her hand moves beneath the fabric. She then gently pulls her hand out and brings her index finger to my lips, where it slides in. I taste and smell her pussy as I gently suck on and lick her finger. After she returns her hand to inside her pants I sit up to watch. After a few moments of watching her touch herself (and wanting to touch myself) I reach over and pull the jeans off her hips and down her legs.
Now she is only wearing her panties and I can see as her hand moving as she touches her clit. All I can think about is how wet she probably is right now and how much I want to taste her wetness. I am incredibly turned on at this point and I feel my boxers getting wet with precum. I ask her if I can go down on her and she smiles. I can hardly wait as she removes her panties and tosses them off the edge of the bed. She brings her knees up and closes her legs but her pussy lips are still visible between her thighs, another sight that makes me moan and my cock twitch even more. She opens her legs up and I lay down between her thighs, kissing them and slowly kissing down her stomach towards her pussy.
I wet my lips gently and press them softly against hers. My tongue slowly licks at her lips feeling all hairs and curves of them, gradually opening up her lips. I smell the warm scent of her pussy that always turns me on. I feel towards the bottom of her pussy the wetness of her vagina, the sweetness and wetness on my tongue and then on her clit; a small pea nestled in between the tops of her lips. I start slow with the flat of my tongue pressing against her clit, then feeling her wetness leaking out of her and tasting her and loving it. I glance up and see her eyes closed, biting her lip, hearing her moaning as I continue to lick her clit, keeping my warm mouth and tongue on her pussy. I feel my cock straining against the bed and my body pressed on top of it. I keep licking her pussy, staying focused on her clit with my tongue, alternating broad strokes up and down and side to side. She moans out my name and starts to breathe heavier and she moves her hips and presses her clit harder onto my tongue. I love hearing her moan my name. I feel her delicious wetness on my lips and on my chin and I keep licking and she coming and moaning as I keep licking her until her hips stop shaking and she rests her hand on my head to stop me. I lift my head up and she smiles, still drunk from her orgasm.
After a minute she tells me to stand up and she takes off my pants. As I step out of each leg I feel my cock press forward against my boxers. She reaches in a wraps her hand around my hard cock...
To be continued soon!
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[20 Dec 2009|12:39am] |
Hi again everyone,
I'm trying to find a reputable website that sells women's corsets/bustiers with garter belts... something dominatrix-y. Not teddies but corsets, something waist-length with garter straps... Anyway, Amazon sells mostly pleather and polyester and I was hoping to find something of better quality that's not too hard on the wallet. Macy's doesn't have that much to choose from, neither does Victoria's Secret. Any suggestions?
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| boyfriend is disinterested in sex |
[16 Dec 2009|10:29pm] |
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My boyfriend of over one year is disinterested in sex. Originally, the disinterest was caused by inexperience and performance anxiety. However, after many, many attempts to successfully have sexual intercourse and discussions about his fears/worries, we were finally able to have good sex. This was in the spring. His higher libido only lasted a few months though (late March to July). By August he was already disinterested in sex (not just piv, but ALL forms of sex) again. He constantly tells me how much he loves me, but it makes me think that he is only emotionally interested in me. I am the type of person who values a healthy sex life in a relationship and his lack of interest in sex is causing me to question if he is boyfriend material for me. We have talked about this issue on several occasions, but nothing seems to change. He blames in on his 'low libido' and 'not understanding his own body'. I have encouraged him to practice masturbating as a way for him to become more knowledgeable about his body (since he only masturbated in his junior year of high school/when he was sixteen years old) and/or to seek professional guidance. He seems to listen to my suggestions, but does not act upon them. I am beginning to question his sexuality/maturity since he expresses no interest in having any type of sex. Any advice on what to do about this situation? I am about to throw in the towel out of frustration and rejection.
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| The Deal Part One |
[21 Dec 2009|07:56pm] |
This story is copyrighted
He looked her up and down slowly, enjoying her body. She had taken time to look sexy and it showed, from the heels to the black dress and her carefully layered hair. She was looking through the window at the harbor, and her back was turned to him, so he took his time and looked at her beautifully shaped legs and her butt, and imagined her smooth back. A familiar stirring in the pit of his stomach warmed him up slowly.
It had been a great evening, a business dinner with Jessica, his beautiful - and very influential - client who had flown in to New York for a conference. She made time for him, and he planned everything down to the last detail. An early dinner, the Broadway show, and then the bar afterward for drinks. He had studiously kept away any business talk, which was not difficult - they'd both had long weeks and just wanted to untwine. There was enough time for business talk another day.
What was really difficult though was keeping his eyes from undressing her. She was not a model by any means, but she was very sexy, he thought.
Maybe not one of those anorexic models anyway.
She would be the kind of model that he would pick if he were designing clothes. She had full lips, blond hair, a sensual laugh. Her dress was cut low enough that he could see well defined breasts, and beautiful outlines showed fabulous thighs.
And she had taken time to look good. She even smelled .. sensual.
When he went to the restroom at the restaurant, he had actually needed to go into a stall, and pulled out his cock - it was turgid, exuding pleasure and he needed to reposition it. He massaged his testicles, enjoying the sensation, and then waited a few minutes to relax.
When he came to the table, still a little flustered, she seemed to look straight at his crotch again, starting up problems again.
He could picture her naked, awesome breasts, blonde pussy hair, a slight tummy ... and willed his mind to stop before he had a real problem.
Everything had gone well (except for his cock) until the bar. She had a really nice voice and laugh, and was up on all the latest news, and they bantered back and forth on politics for a while. Then disaster struck - they mock-fought over the bill and somehow he managed to spill her fries all over her dress, and splotches of dark red ketchup splattered her dress.
'Damn,' she said, looking at the dress, 'I cannot walk into the hotel lobby like this.'
'Jess, I am so sorry,' he said helplessly, 'I'll pay for the dry cleaning...'
'You doofus,' her laugh had no trace of rancor at all, 'Don't worry about it ... hey, your apartment is near here, right? I can do a better job cleaning it there, if you don't mind.'
Of course, he did not mind. He knew nothing would come out of it, but the thought of her in his apartment made him giddy.
And so they to his apartment that overlooked the East River. The lights were dimmed when they walked in, and he left them that way. She'd then looked over his hardwood floors, the Ethan Allen furniture, and his collection of string instruments quietly, looking really interested.
'Do you play?' he asked, noticing she was looking at an acoustical guitar, and she shook her head.
'Always wanted to, but never had the time,' she grinned, and turned to look at the water,'What an awesome view ..'
He agreed, looking at her butt and legs. Her dress came up just above her knees, and he had an urge to kiss the back of knees and up her thighs. As if to oblige, she leaned forward against the window, and her dress rode up just enough for him to catch his breath. Her legs were so sexy, he wanted to rub his hands over them slowly.
'What are you waiting for, man?' her voice purred. She was looking at him in the reflection, and had been all along, he realized with a start.
'Erm,' he said, flustered.
'You really are a big doofus, Charlie, aren't you?' she hadn't moved from the window, and was studying him slowly with a saucy smile,'I kept throwing you hints all throughout the evening and you totally ignored them. I nearly jumped you during the show.'
She chuckled, and he managed a weak smile.
'I had to ruin this dress for you. I may make you pay those drycleaning charges after all,' she smiled,'Now, move it, boy.'
She hitched up her dress, around her waist and bent over more, against the window. With a start, he realized that she was totally naked waist down, her butt beckoning him, her pussy lips just barely visible between her legs.
His body immediately tingled from head to toe, and pleasure started to play across his skin as he reached out for her butt. He gasped as he felt the soft skin and heard her draw her breath in, in response. He knelt on the ground and did what he had wanted to do for the past three hours - he ran his hand over her legs, felt her skin and enjoyed the sensual touch. 'Jess,' he muttered, almost a groan. In response, she sighed deeply, and he saw her lightly touch her breasts through the dress. The woman was so horny ...
He kissed her legs and moved up her thighs, licking and nibbling in desperation.
Jess rested one hand on the window ledge, her breath clouding the cold glass. She was looking out on one of the most stunning views of East River, the skyline and the boats setting it off, but she hardly saw anything.
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[20 Dec 2009|01:54am] |
I am thinking of buying toys.
I've had toys. I just had to get rid of them - long story. Anyway, I am thinking of getting new toys.
Right now, I have none. I've taken a bit of a look around, and I'd like to start with the basics - a vibrator, a dildo.
Vibrators are infinitely good for that quickie when I just need the release; they do the job so quickly and so well that I start, I simply lose my mind and then I pick myself up again and get on with whatever I was going.
Dildos are for longer play, because it takes forever for me to find the right angles, to make it comfortable, and by the time things feel good, things feel really good. I can fuck myself with a dildo forever, and it'll never stop driving me insane. I'd love to have someone who'd do that for me - fuck me with it, nice, slow, gentle, precise, until I was aching for it, shouting for release.
I've been to that point where every thrust inside of me feels like another orgasm. I want to get there again.
Combos are best, though. Once I'm to the point where the dildo inside me feels good, all I have to do is use the vibrator on my clit, briefly, teasingly, just a few times. I'll come, shouting, laughing, seeing stars.
And now that I've made myself nice and wet thinking about past orgasms, I think I'll just lay around for a while and keep rubbing my legs together and wait until it's unbearable and the only option I have left is to stick my hand down my panties and rub my hard, slick clit until it's throbbing and I'm shouting into a pillow.
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[16 Dec 2009|11:21am] |
so when my boyfriend goes down on me, when it builds up and i'm digging it, it starts to get uncomfortable where it feels like a tickle fight and i feel like i need to pee really badly (but i don't); is this considered a normal part of climaxing? do other girls enjoy this? i just feel like i need to stop but like that's a bummer, not being able to get off on oral. now i just feel hesitant about being eaten out and i don't want this sensation to ruin oral for me. when i end up doing is biting my hand and wait until he does something else.
and not really a concern but a curiosity, how long until it stopped hurting for girls after they started having sex or how long until they started enjoying it?
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| Oral sex: Girls who like it... |
[16 Dec 2009|02:30am] |
I searched the memories and didnt find any on this topic.
I happen to be a girl who enjoys giving head as if it were a favor to me (unless being forced to do it) I get a rush from it and it definitly never feels like a chore. I have met others who agree but not many. any one else?
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[16 Dec 2009|03:25am] |
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So, I looked in the memories and I couldn't exactly find a story that fit my situation so I figured I'd give it a shot. Let me give you guys a little bit of a back story. I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 28. We've been together for 7 months and we've known each other for 6 years. We've been throw alot in the last 6 years. I was with another guy for the last 3 years, that was very abusive and ended in a rape and a pfa. He has survived cancer twice. We dated once when we were younger and we decided to give it another go.
After my long term relationship ended, I wanted nothing to do with a serious relationship. So I dated casually and I did have one or two one night stands. They were fun, the sex was great and I didn't have to commit to any of them. When I was in the 3 year relationship, the sex was horrible. I felt trapped, like I was an object, I was resentful and I had no drive at all. And Now that I am out of that relationship, my drive is amazing. While I was casually dating when I was with someone, I could tell them exactly what I wanted, how I wanted ect. I had no problem. I was not self-conscious at all. I was actually very dominant.
When the boyfriend and I started dating, that all changed. When we started having sex, I got nervous. Foreplay was no big deal, I had no problem making out and all that, but when it came to the part where he pants actually came off, I found myself being very nervous and unsure of myself. I of course pushed through it, thinking it was maybe me just liking him to much, that I didn't want to mess anything up or me trying to be perfect. I've always been very comfortable with sex. With the people I've been with, being able to openly discuss it, and now its all changed.
My boyfriend on the other hand, is completely different. He is shy even though he says he isnt. He is on celexra, which is an anti-depressant, which I thought could be the problem too. When we first started to sleep together, you could tell that he was nervous, and usually its a big turn on when a guy is intimidated by me, but not this time. And yes, he has called me intimidating. I of course was very dominate, because if I wasnt, I feel we would have gotten no where fast. The first couple of times, I was very dominate and then I started to ease off, giving him more control and such, which is a nice change of pace. Well, that is were it all went downhill, I think.
We started to have a shot or 2, before anything sexual started. I think it calmed both of our nerves and everything seemed to be ok. Pictures were taken, videos were made, we openly discussed things we wanted to try. This went on for awhile, then we hit a dry spell. He told me it was his medication and after a about 3 weeks, we were back to normal. We then started to drink more. Well, he did. We'd drink and play cards or whatever and then I couldn't keep his hands off me. The in October, we stopped drinking. We still had sex and I was honestly still nervous. I still could not bring myself to tell him what felt good and what didn't. Was I scared I was going to hurt his feelings? Yes. He was already shy, I didnt want to make it worse..well I did. Early November, after a night of drinking and from a dry spell of 2 weeks, we had sex, or at least tried. He might have lasted all of 5 minutes. Which could have been the liquor or the dry spell, either way I let out a very aggravated, drunk "You've got to be kidding me". And yes, I understand how horrible that was and I apologized the next day. I honestly wouldn't have cared, if he was like "let me finger you to get you off" or something but he doesnt offer. And he knows how much I love it. But then I have to show him what to do, which I am getting better at. So I can see where I'm at fault too.I know he does masturbate, cause he used to be very open with it. So I dont think its his endurance? We've had sex once after that, and I we were sober, took about 45 mins to actually start having sex and we might have been 10 mins in when he asked if I got off because he did awhile ago and didnt want to tell me. I pretty much rolled off him, said that wasnt cool and told him we'd discuss it later.
We'll we never did. And everytime I try, we get no where. Its almost like he doesnt hear me and changes the subject. We are a very strong couple besides the whole lack of sex. We are very close, we dont see each other everyday, mostly on the weekends but talk all the time. When we first started out, we used to dirty text each other, send pictures and make out. God, I love to make out, we never do anymore. We Kiss, but it goes no further. We still cuddle and sleep in the same bed and we're very affection otherwise. I've tried everything, to skimpy clothing, doing things that usually used to initiate sex, like kissing his neck or touching on of his hot spots. Nothing. And now when I mention something dirty or send a dirty text, it gets ignored.
I am now getting self-conscious. I invited him in the shower the other night, and I get "Im not the shower kind of guy" when he used to text me all the things he wanted to do to me in the shower. Heck, all he wanted for his birthday was sex, and he spent the whole night playing warcraft. I'm out of ideas. I don't want to badger him or make it seem like its all about sex, cause it isnt, but I don't want to be missing out. lately he has grinded with me when we've cuddled and I've grinded back and it ends there. I know, He's turned on and that he's hard but its like he won't take the next step. And I've been rejected to many times that I just can't take it anymore. The Old Me would have been able to come out and say "let's F*ck" and for some reason I cant.
I understand its all about communication, we ourselves have said that to each other. We talk about everything, personal or not. It just when it comes to sex, it's like we're both scared and I don't understand why. I'm sorry if I confused anyone, I just have alot on my mind and I just want to give enough information as possible. Does anyone have any experience with this?
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